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I couldn't find an actual "group" to write this in, so I will write it here.

I have been talking to a guy and there is some interest, however he has 5 children. I don't currently have any and it took me a while to get to a point to accept a man that has 1. he has 5. This makes me a little nervous. He is about 5/2 years older than me and is divorced. We have only been talking a short while and he us to meet (where he lives) I really am stuck, a little afraid and don't know what to do. After a little hesitation on my end of him telling me he wanted to meet ( after 2 or 3 days of communicating via text and phone) he told me that he didn't want to" 'waist' his time"
I just need time to make sure that I'm not rushing into anything that I can't come of lightly.
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
IF you feel like you know this person well enough okay, but it sounds like you don't so i wouldn't be trying to meet up with someone that soon. Usually when someone is trying to set up a meeting that fast they only want one thing. I am not speaking for everyone, but in most cases this is what I have found to be true. It also sounds like he doesn't know what he wants which is why he is changing his mind like that. It's not about wasting time at all, he is lost. I would say get to know this person a bit more. In my opinion 2 or 3 days is not enough time. Follow your gut feeling on this one.
sweetiepoo · 36-40, F
@butterfly1013 exactly. When I told him that, he said not 'now' but pushing for July. Even that feels too soon for me.
SW-User
It depends what.kinda man he is. If it's only some interest then I wouldn't do it. If you are going to do it then be ready for 4 out 5 will hate you and try to break you up. He will take their side most likely, and you will have wasted A LOT of energy on them and left with disappointment. This is the most realistic scenario since he already said he doesn't want to waste his time...its not crucially important to him.
SW-User
Waste his time ?
That would end things for me right then and there.
SpaceCreature · 26-30, F
If he doesnt want to waste his time, then dont waste yours either.
sweetiepoo · 36-40, F
@SpaceCreature you're right.
Montanaman · M
Waste His Time? Wtf? Your time is what's important.
seashells · 31-35, F
Don't do it

 
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