Now I don't feel special, am I wrong?

My girl, has sent "special pictures" of herself to me while we were dating. I felt special because this conservative woman was sending me "special pictures." Later I learned that she had sent "special pictures" to other men in the past. In some cases it was the exact pose that she sent to me. Am I less valuable and special because I got the same as other guys?

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PoetryNEmotion · F

So, not so special then. Why would she send the same photos? You are not like other men. I think she is undesirable. Tell me, are you still with her? She could easily have sent other special photos to you.

Capt11 · 46-50, M

@PoetryNEmotion no I am no longer with her.

PoetryNEmotion · F

@Capt11 And you are okay?

Capt11 · 46-50, M

My heart is extremely resilient. Do I feel bad yes I do. Do I let that control my life today no I do not. I have grown to understand a few things. First it takes creativity desire hard work to make things unique in a relationship. Second it is not hard to make a relationship bad. Next your past matters so you should be upfront about it. I look forward to what life will bring me next the great opportunities that I am facing to discover love, partnership, friendship, companionship, and happiness.