Now I don't feel special, am I wrong?

My girl, has sent "special pictures" of herself to me while we were dating. I felt special because this conservative woman was sending me "special pictures." Later I learned that she had sent "special pictures" to other men in the past. In some cases it was the exact pose that she sent to me. Am I less valuable and special because I got the same as other guys?

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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

Obviously, you are not unique in her experience of boyfriends. Of course, she does care for you in some sense or she wouldn't send them at all. But maybe you are expecting more than she is able to provide...?

Are you giving her a lot materially, like money or expensive gifts?

Also, is she a real life person or a long distance relationship?

If the above questions can be answered "yes" and "long distance" and you've been giving her money but haven't met her... you might be in the process of being played or even conned.

Capt11 · 46-50, M

@greenmountaingal thank you for the education and prospective. Yes she is a real life person. Yes I have looked out for her and her child. You are right I do expect a lot in that part of the relationship however, I give a lot. I think this is just another example of us not being compatible. Love is not everything I am old enough to know that now.

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

@Capt11 You may be right. Time will tell.