Now I don't feel special, am I wrong?

My girl, has sent "special pictures" of herself to me while we were dating. I felt special because this conservative woman was sending me "special pictures." Later I learned that she had sent "special pictures" to other men in the past. In some cases it was the exact pose that she sent to me. Am I less valuable and special because I got the same as other guys?

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SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

Why don’t you just take your own “special pictures” of her?

I’m thinking that if you keep being jealous, she’s gonna be send those pics to her new special guy.

Capt11 · 46-50, M

@SimplyTracie I want to be very clear I am not jealous. It is not about the other man it is about me. I think what I am Learning is, if you are older and you are getting something you think is special it probably isn't. Thank you for your time and reply.

SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

@Capt11 You’re welcome and ya could have fooled me, sir.

Capt11 · 46-50, M

@SimplyTracie If you and I were dating and I gave you a ring that I had given to another woman how would you feel about it?

SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

@Capt11 That would suck and that would just mean that I’m not special.

Capt11 · 46-50, M

Now you seem to understand how I feel.

SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

@Capt11 You’re hurt I get it. But if you make it an issue, she’s gonna send “special pictures” to someone else. She cannot undo her past.

As I said, take your own “special pictures”.

Capt11 · 46-50, M

That is good advice thank you I am not sure what I am going to do at this time. Yes I am hurt but I'm more disappointed. I have truly learned a powerful lesson.

SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

@Capt11 That’s good