Now I don't feel special, am I wrong?

My girl, has sent "special pictures" of herself to me while we were dating. I felt special because this conservative woman was sending me "special pictures." Later I learned that she had sent "special pictures" to other men in the past. In some cases it was the exact pose that she sent to me. Am I less valuable and special because I got the same as other guys?

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

Miram · 31-35, F

She belongs to you now. Her past experiences don't have to be related to her current choices. You will have to learn to accept the past, there's nothing she can do to change it.

Capt11 · 46-50, M

@Miram Thank you for taking the time to post a reply. I think you are missing the bigger picture. If I am getting the same as the last guy what makes me special?

Miram · 31-35, F

@Capt11 you are also dating the same woman, does that mean you aren't special?

I am not missing the bigger picture. You are focused on a single action and you generalise that to ALL, EVERYTHING you mean to her. There are other things she can do that she never did for other people and her love for you can be different regardless of how she expresses it.

Capt11 · 46-50, M

@Miram Thank you for your point of view I truly appreciate it.

Miram · 31-35, F

@Capt11 You are welcome