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Feeling terrible again after a year. What should I do?

Ex boyfriend started a smear campaign after I broke up with him because he was treating me badly - to see if he would change. He spread nasty rumors about me to people I don’t even know. A year has past by and I still feel like a stranger in my own town. I went into a shop today, not realizing that it was owned by one of my ex’s friends. As soon as I starting looking at the clothes I started to feel so uncomfortable, the sales people were looking at me so badly basically letting me know I was unwelcome (like the scene in pretty woman). I felt so uncomfortable and sad. I don’t know what to do anymore but it’s getting hard to bare
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Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Why on earth are you letting this man have any control over your life ?
He only has the power you give him.
Live your life.
destinyfabulous · 36-40, F
@Picklebobble2 she has to live her life....however that a tough situation to have to deal with. Isolation and hate hurts
Sensitiveheart · 31-35, F
Exactly! I completely try to ignore but seeing as it is still happening after a year I can’t deny it hurts seeing I was in love with the man
destinyfabulous · 36-40, F
@Sensitiveheart U can get over a broken heart...try not to contact him at all...no pics nothing... No fb stalking too. It will be hard at first but eventually ull not feel the love for him anymore. Focus on other activities to keep busy. Talk to ur friends.

As for the hateful ppl...keep a smiling and joyful confident disposition... Ppl tend tobforgot rumors...especially if u act contrary to it.