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Feeling terrible again after a year. What should I do?

Ex boyfriend started a smear campaign after I broke up with him because he was treating me badly - to see if he would change. He spread nasty rumors about me to people I don’t even know. A year has past by and I still feel like a stranger in my own town. I went into a shop today, not realizing that it was owned by one of my ex’s friends. As soon as I starting looking at the clothes I started to feel so uncomfortable, the sales people were looking at me so badly basically letting me know I was unwelcome (like the scene in pretty woman). I felt so uncomfortable and sad. I don’t know what to do anymore but it’s getting hard to bare
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CrazyLevan · 31-35, M
1. Society is fickle minded. They will only listen to one part of the story and stick to it. You know the truth, they don't. Ignore them.

2. If somebody denies you service or purposefully berates you in a store or a shop, get a complaint book and lodge a complaint. Employees cannot send you out based on personal opinion. Remember to stay calm and composed throughout. Don't get emotional or abusive.

3. If you get hate mails/letters, take up the matter with the police.