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Feeling terrible again after a year. What should I do?

Ex boyfriend started a smear campaign after I broke up with him because he was treating me badly - to see if he would change. He spread nasty rumors about me to people I don’t even know. A year has past by and I still feel like a stranger in my own town. I went into a shop today, not realizing that it was owned by one of my ex’s friends. As soon as I starting looking at the clothes I started to feel so uncomfortable, the sales people were looking at me so badly basically letting me know I was unwelcome (like the scene in pretty woman). I felt so uncomfortable and sad. I don’t know what to do anymore but it’s getting hard to bare
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destinyfabulous · 36-40, F
Do u have a family member who lives elsewhere that u can't go by a rebuild from there? Ur ex is an asshole by the way.
Sensitiveheart · 31-35, F
Unfortunately I don’t :( @destinyfabulous
@Sensitiveheart I’m so sorry.
destinyfabulous · 36-40, F
@Sensitiveheart that's OK...ur a warrior...put on ur armor and go out and do ur thing....make friends... Talk to ppl... Focus on doing good at work...and anytime u feel down u can buzz me on sw... I'll try to keep my phone on me at all times. I can't believe that bastard would do that to you.
Sensitiveheart · 31-35, F
Thank you so much for your kind words, it already helped me a lot. Thank you for letting me vent. Some people think I might be overacting but after a year of being isolated and targeted it can get hard sometimes. @destinyfabulous
destinyfabulous · 36-40, F
@Sensitiveheart don't brush away ur feelings...hurt changes u....go tru the hurt...right tru it... And the next r me rumors spread.... U wouldn't even care. In the meantime I'm here for u.