It was good while it lasted

@Pygmy ehbdont worry about her , if you were a liberal, Fernie would Commend you

@TexChik It is alright. I completely understand my post would create some disagreement from others. Some might be a victim or had been cheated on, so they react that way. Some might want to just bash people up. I am no saint. I would bash myself too a few years ago reading this post. I welcome people's view; good or bad. Thank you for being nice and kind in your comments. It reflects the person you are :)

@Pygmy 😉 I am the most committed monogamous loving wife I can be . But my husband is also that way ... he’s involved in our marriage too and we are still in love . I am thankful every second for my marriage , it makes all the difference . But if he had checked out , let himself go physically , and didn’t show much interest in me ... I can see how your situation could happen . And I have enough faults , who am I to judge ? 😁. Don’t be so hard on yourself .

@Fernie Not going to deny that.

@Pygmy if you try and make a go of your marriage and it still doesn't work then you will have no guilt around but your neck. There are many single nice guys out there. Make your life a good one.

Sure. I am giving this marriage a second chance. Divorce is not really an option but I know I need to do something for myself. Wish me luck :)

@Pygmy I wish you all the luck in the world!