"Nice" guy/girl:-I'm so nice so why am I single?- Also "nice" guy/girl: -F that dumb ass bish for not liking me evern though I'm so nice to him/her!-

I'm sorry but I can't take the whole self proclaimed "nice" guy/girl thing where they claim to be so nice but then throw a hissy fit because the person doesn't like them back even though they've been so nice to them. If you're only nice to someone because you expect something out of them for it, then are you really nice? If someone doesn't like you then move the hell on and not sit there bashing them because you think you deserve their affection just because you were "nice". Yeah, it sucks when someone doesn't like you back but you can't just force people to have feelings that they don't have. If they don't feel anything for you it doesn't matter if you're the nicest person in the world or not because they're not going to look at you romantically.

SW-User

Decades ago, being a 'nice' person meant you were a decent human being. Now, being a 'nice' person is a slur, thanks to the people who tried being nice and got shot down, regardless if they were really nice and got stepped all over, or 'nice' to try and hide their assholery.

I didn't like being called 'nice' back in the day because I saw it as a death knell, 'nice guys finish last' and all that. Now, I don't ever want to be associated with the word 'nice' due to this recent development.