My girlfriend hangs out with a girl that she used to crush so hard on

And I really don't like it. I makes me very uncomfortable. I really wish that it didn't make me uncomfortable but, it does. They were friends for about 8 months before her and I met. They are going to pride with a group of friends Saturday and my gf asked me to go but, I'm not going. She says they've never hooked up or kissed but it still makes me uncomfortable. I'm being too weird aren't I? Ugh, I can't help it! Am I wrong for being uncomfortable about it?

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Serenitree · F

Get used to the fact that you will be running into people she used to crush on, or fantasize about. Just because you weren't her first love, doesn't mean you won't be the last, unless she feels you don't trust her. That could wear thin after a while.

Don't ask her to drop past friends or she may decide it's too high a price to pay.