My girlfriend hangs out with a girl that she used to crush so hard on

And I really don't like it. I makes me very uncomfortable. I really wish that it didn't make me uncomfortable but, it does. They were friends for about 8 months before her and I met. They are going to pride with a group of friends Saturday and my gf asked me to go but, I'm not going. She says they've never hooked up or kissed but it still makes me uncomfortable. I'm being too weird aren't I? Ugh, I can't help it! Am I wrong for being uncomfortable about it?

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Davidarendale · 36-40, M

Your user name is keepitsimple though It sounds like your doing everything but that. If it bothers you so much then explain your feelings to your GF and ask her not to go. If she goes anyway or doesn't go but makes you miserable the whole time she isn't at pride fest then break up with her.

Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F

@Davidarendale my question is, am I wrong for being uncomfortable about it.

Davidarendale · 36-40, M

No. If you had a boy friend and he hung out a lot with a girl that he really crushed on not too long ago and then was planning to go on a trip with (without you) anyone would tell you to ask him to cut that s*** out and if he didn't then dump him. Is this situation any different cause everyone involved is the same sex?

Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F

@Davidarendale True!!! Thank you!