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Hi guys I need your help. What would you do?

Basically long story short I have been with my partner over a year, I'm 26 and he's 37. He has a teenage daughter already and I have no children. When we first got together he told me he would like to have more kids at some point in the future, but recently I bought the topic up again and he told me he has no intention of having any more children and doesn't remember saying otherwise.

Now I'm in a really difficult situation as I have never been bothered about having children before, but since I've been with him all of a sudden I've got really broody and can't stop thinking about trying for a baby. I basically have 2 choices, either stay with the man I love and deal with the fact I likely won't have a family of my own, or leave and try and find another man to father my children. I don't want to do this as I don't want to panic and settle for someone who isn't right just because I want children.

What would you do?
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Justenjoyit56-60, M
Dont worry to much you still have time, and you can decide weather or not you have a baby 馃槉r not. I was dead agaist children,I ended up with three 馃槅 thankfully
AliceMortem31-35, F
@Justenjoyit problem is he talks about kids a lot and he's great with them. That's why I was in shock when he told me he didn't want any more. Sometimes he seems like he's coming around to the idea and other times he's dead against it. I'm not trying to manipulate him but I wish he'd make his mind up for certain so I can move on and live my life
Justenjoyit56-60, M
@AliceMortem Thats men we think of the huge responabilty and if it all goes wrong we have to move out 馃槉