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Happychap · 41-45, M
Never in a million years. I've been the betrayed spouse in this scenario. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy the months it's taken me to get to where i am, sleepless nights, anxiety, depression, endless sobbing, loneliness, a suicide attempt not to mention the bitter arguements. I feel i've turned a corner recently and there is now a light at the end of the tunnel. Was it worth it for her.... not one iota she's had the deal with the above and more. If anyone is in a loving relationship and start down this road.... well you're a selfish f**king c**t in my book.
NewBeginings · 41-45, F
I feel extremely sorry for you.
I never thought from the other end.
I never thought from the other end.
Happychap · 41-45, M
Thanks newBeginings. I actually took somethibg positive from the whole thimg, i learnt a lot about myself and she has really helped me sort out my feelings and been there for me. It's been tough but it has brought us closer together. We're more committed to each other than we were before this. In a way i'm glad it happened if that makes sense? I wouldn't wish the trauma on anyone but if you can weather it it can have a really positve outcome x