I it true that one must be social in order to find true love?

love is greater than lust, but true love is difficult to find

Leonas · 26-30, M

I think it depends.
You can find your soulmate in a close-knit community of friends while others have hundreds of acquaintances and are still looking.

In the end, I think it's more about a matter of finding people whose company actually add a lot to your life and then see how things develop. You can't really set out "looking" for true love, we're not living in a fairy tale.

or are we?

scheddybratzke · 31-35, M

@Leonas if i don't look for true love, I end up breaking myself with a break up

Leonas · 26-30, M

@scheddybratzke Well, life's a constant rollercoaster of emotions. There are your ups and downs and both can be either really high or really, really low. If you're scared to get hurt you might miss out on some great experiences. A breakup, however nasty, can be recovered from. Just chin up and press on :P

scheddybratzke · 31-35, M

@Leonas absolutely my heart is not eligible to bypass such hurts...

Miram · 31-35, F

I must be the exception then.

scheddybratzke · 31-35, M

@Miram so you admit it...
i guess you had too many break ups

Miram · 31-35, F

@scheddybratzke

I am not social and I did find love.

Breakups don't make love "untrue".

scheddybratzke · 31-35, M

@Miram that's because you are gorgeous

badapple

would be harder to find if you stayed walled off.

scheddybratzke · 31-35, M

@badapple what does it mean?

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