Is it stupid to be friends with your ex when you're still in love with them?

I'm still in love with her but she isn't in love with me(why we broke up) she wants to be friends and keep talking like nothing's happened and I want to reach that point but I'm still heartbroken...we talk every day and it feels okay but when we hang up I feel so empty

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kayoshin · 36-40, M

Yes it is srupid. You have yo tell them that you understand they can't love you but they should also understand you can't flip a switch amd stop loving them just to be at their disposal. They will lose a friend well tough shit you lost your love life is like that unfair, but what they are doing to you now is more unfair. Get your distance and move on, otherwise your life will pass you by while you're in the friend zone trap of that person and one day you'll realise they moved on a long time ago and built a life while you were still having your feelings manipulated and stood still.