is my married friend trying to get in bed with me?

He asked me out for a bite today and since we’re classmates and friends, i thought it was cool. He started holding my hand in the car and massaging it and i just ignored it and kept talking. He even said “let me take you out on a real date.” I said no, then called me boring. He also started playing with my hair, which i kept ignoring. He started talking about my virginity saying that it’s a treasure and what not and that guys like it because they’re in control. Then he said “we should hold hands like this in private but not at school.” Then continued to complain about his wife. He has a kid too. Is he looking for trouble because it seems like it

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SW-User

Stay away from that guy and never ignore anything like that again.
You tell them to stop doing what they are doing or you will tell his wife.
Hold hands but not in public? What a low life!

Flipabee · 26-30, F

Tbh, i seriously thought it was just going to be getting a sandwich with him. I didn’t expect him to do all of the other things to me even when i was being distant. I never even thought of him like that because all of my classmates are my brothers and sisters. Besides, not interested in sad married guys.@SW-User

SW-User

@Flipabee Guys like this get off on pestering/ bullying women who they precieve are navie if you do not stand up to it you put yourself in some bad situtations.
Ignoring thier behavior doesn't really work only a direct firm No or Back off.
He doesn't respect any boundaries those type can become dangerous.