is my married friend trying to get in bed with me?

He asked me out for a bite today and since we’re classmates and friends, i thought it was cool. He started holding my hand in the car and massaging it and i just ignored it and kept talking. He even said “let me take you out on a real date.” I said no, then called me boring. He also started playing with my hair, which i kept ignoring. He started talking about my virginity saying that it’s a treasure and what not and that guys like it because they’re in control. Then he said “we should hold hands like this in private but not at school.” Then continued to complain about his wife. He has a kid too. Is he looking for trouble because it seems like it

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rckt148 · 61-69, M

Sounds like you picked up on all the signs he wants more and he is a cheater
I would not take any more rides or go out for any more "Bites " if I were you

Flipabee · 26-30, F

I’m making sure to bring my other classmates along so he won’t try anything else. Not interested in taken men anyway. My parents went through a mishap with cheating and it really affected me on relationships. @rckt148

rckt148 · 61-69, M

@Flipabee yea mine was a cheater who only came home to beat the hell out of me
kind of effected my life too ,I was on my own by 13 ,,married by 16 .
I have been working hard every since ,but at least not doing her job .
My Dad broke his back when I was in service so she had to go to nursing school for an excuse to get out and meet up with her boyfriends ,
Dad was home and totally screwed my brothers up
They went from listening to me like I was their parent to no one .
So yes it screws kids up not having stability ,
Another reason he is a major jerk ,not only does he want to cheat on his wife ,
He does not seem to care what his actions could do to you ,his wife or his kids .
Listen I was no saint either ,so I am going to tell you like I tell my Granddaughters ,and I told their Moms ,
I am an expert on jerks
You need to stay away from the jerk ,just go to lunch with real friends
He is not one ,,he just wants to sleep with you ,
A real friend would care if he was going to end up hurting you .
His wife ,and the lives of his kids