Reason i ask is cause during my last break up everyone wanted to know why. and i never wanted to talk about it and just thought, like all of you, it’s none of their business.

Yes. It's not really anyone else's business unless one of those people chooses to confide in someone. Very close friends would probably already know why.

I think it would depend on how well you know the person.
Personally, I generally don't ask those questions.

That depends upon a lot of factors. How close of a friendship would be a primary factor. But many other things like time & setting. It would be inappropriate to ask in the presence of others, or at work. My wife & I have been separated for 6 months. Some of my closer friends know, but others don't. I told my very CLOSEST friends. Oddly, some of my other friends KNEW, but didn't actually ASK. So, they made leading statements IN CASE I WANTED to tell them, which I DID. They meekly said that they "had heard about it", but didn't want to pry.

Kind of. If they don’t volunteer the information then I assume they don’t want me to know.

Yes, let the person tell you when they feel comfortable talking about it.

It’s about timing and some folks won’t share. It’s really none of your business too ..

Yes, if they want to talk about it that fine. But never ask.

I feel like it is, yeah.

Yeah it is

Eh I don’t really care, if usually involves a good story so it’s worth asking

Depends on if it affects other people

Most of time a woman will not tell you where is on the other hand the man is usually a crying bubbling mess overflowing with every detail what happened amazing how that happens

Divorce is rare in my church and when it happens its one of 2 causes. One spouse cheats or tuns abusive

If you’re not super close I’d say yes. Personally my closest friends and family asking wouldn’t bother me I’d get why they’d want to know. But there’s also nothing wrong with setting that boundary of not wanting to talk about it