LuciaRose · 36-40, F
50/50

SW-User
The man.
IF YOUR MOMMA DIDNT TEACH YOU THAT, I DONT WANT TO GO OUT WITH YOU
IF YOUR MOMMA DIDNT TEACH YOU THAT, I DONT WANT TO GO OUT WITH YOU
View 3 more replies »
Novaturient81 · 41-45, F
@SW-User You have a point.
Novaturient81 · 41-45, F
@SW-User That's the way.
Darkchocolate · 31-35, M
I do it most times , just that one should not be taken for granted always @SW-User

SW-User
I think many will have a different opinion. But I'm so independent that I'll probably try and pay for it. Or ask to split it. But part of me thinks that if he asked her to dinner, he pays. If she asks, she pays. So IDK. Lol
Darkchocolate · 31-35, M
I agree splitting works well , or the person who asks pays
JupiterDreams · 31-35
I'd kinda prefer him to. I'm a little old school like that lol
Darkchocolate · 31-35, M
Fair enough , i pay for most of my dates.
JerseyGal · 56-60, F
For me, I prefer to split it. I don't expect either to pay the bill.
JerseyGal · 56-60, F
@Underconstruction Yes. I know not all feel the same way and that's fine as everyone is different.
I just feel that as a first time going out and not really knowing each other, I pay my own way as friends.
After that, if he were to ask me out again, then he could pay if he chose to.
I also do not feel that the man has to always pay. If you are in a friendship or it develops into a relationship, it's a two way street. Everything should be as two, as a couple. So why have only one pay all the time?
Just my thoughts...
I just feel that as a first time going out and not really knowing each other, I pay my own way as friends.
After that, if he were to ask me out again, then he could pay if he chose to.
I also do not feel that the man has to always pay. If you are in a friendship or it develops into a relationship, it's a two way street. Everything should be as two, as a couple. So why have only one pay all the time?
Just my thoughts...
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
The asker always pays.
Darkchocolate · 31-35, M
Thats a fair call , most times i pick up the bill :)
nedkelly · 61-69, M
I am old school and a male should always pay for the meal
Novaturient81 · 41-45, F
@nedkelly First time we agree on something. 😯
Iwillwait · M
The One who asked for the Date.
GunFinger · F
Split the bill.
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
How the hell did this pop back up from 2018???
That feed is really messed up. LOL
That feed is really messed up. LOL
Darkchocolate · 31-35, M
@Dainbramadge lol
Iwillwait · M
@Dainbramadge The Feed is fine. What happens is while you're scrolling through the question your answering, there are several questions that may be of interest below that's answer box you're typing in. Should you engage that said question that was asked in the past, the relevance of it pushes the question into the the current feed.
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
@Dainbramadge I just realised this 2018 😂
Coldplay · 61-69, M
I am. Sorry, I’m old school. A woman is on a pedestal.
YoMomma ·
whoever asked for the date should pay for it imo
Elegy · 46-50
Dutch, unless you get permission to pay for the dinner.
The one who invites
Darkchocolate · 31-35, M
@Underconstruction Agreed
wickey · 70-79, M
🤣 Ladies First is my answer.
Novaturient81 · 41-45, F
The guy.
At least on the first date.
However
I think being treated the first part of the courting process is the best part.
But yeah.
50/50
At least on the first date.
However
I think being treated the first part of the courting process is the best part.
But yeah.
50/50
Darkchocolate · 31-35, M
Agree with you !
Mardrae · F
I always thought it was whoever’ asked for the date. I also think Dutch is common too. But he’ll, it’s been so long since I’ve had a date, I’m the last one to know.
Darkchocolate · 31-35, M
@Mardrae whoever asks for the date formally pays is a valid logic .
This comment is hidden.
Show Comment
Darkchocolate · 31-35, M
@chinagirl96 great answer
MarineBob · 56-60, M
Go ask your dad and let us know his response when your feeling better
Darkchocolate · 31-35, M
Too bad your mom dint teach you manners

SW-User
@Darkchocolate my dad always told me "the man is the one that treats you, you're the lady"
I think Fathers could do the job just as well... if not better, in this respect. 😋
I think Fathers could do the job just as well... if not better, in this respect. 😋
Darkchocolate · 31-35, M
@SW-User Have payed the bill most times , but i dont like being taken for granted and expected to pay all the bills when we go out :)
Manzi · 56-60, M
Always the man so when we go out on a date ill be$$$$$
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
I always pay and for hotels ect
Zonuss · 46-50, M
The guy.
geekoo · 41-45, M
Generally i wouldnt mind paying if the girl doesnt find it offensive.
coary987 · M
50/50
Malai · 22-25, F
Men usually
TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP
I’m not cheap .. FYI ladies 🤓

SW-User
Stupid. A man who loves a woman never asks such a question.
Darkchocolate · 31-35, M
Stupid a date may be with some one whom you just met or came to know
Novaturient81 · 41-45, F
@Darkchocolate But it would be the gentlemanly thing to do. 😊
Darkchocolate · 31-35, M
I do it most times , just that one should not be taken for granted always