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JerseyGal · 56-60, F
@Underconstruction Yes. I know not all feel the same way and that's fine as everyone is different.
I just feel that as a first time going out and not really knowing each other, I pay my own way as friends.
After that, if he were to ask me out again, then he could pay if he chose to.
I also do not feel that the man has to always pay. If you are in a friendship or it develops into a relationship, it's a two way street. Everything should be as two, as a couple. So why have only one pay all the time?
Just my thoughts...
I just feel that as a first time going out and not really knowing each other, I pay my own way as friends.
After that, if he were to ask me out again, then he could pay if he chose to.
I also do not feel that the man has to always pay. If you are in a friendship or it develops into a relationship, it's a two way street. Everything should be as two, as a couple. So why have only one pay all the time?
Just my thoughts...