Guys: if you truly deeply love your wives or girlfriends ...
What makes you cheat on them and do you feel guilty afterwards?
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Masood22003 · 18-21, M
Mikado · 46-50, F
@Masood22003 do you feel guilty about it?
Masood22003 · 18-21, M
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@Masood22003
Masood22003 · 46-50, M
When she is not willing to do what I need. I have to cheat.
To each his own, but I cannot disagree with you more. There are things my wife isn't comfortable with and things she simply refuses to even try, but I could not and would not in good faith and conscience do them with any other woman. Love and intimacy are "needs"...specific acts are not and they can be lived without. Sure they are desires and would make the sexual experience even more exciting, interesting, and enjoyable but they aren't absolute necessities. To me, that statement was very selfish.
Masood22003 · 46-50, M
When she is not willing to do what I need. I have to cheat.
To each his own, but I cannot disagree with you more. There are things my wife isn't comfortable with and things she simply refuses to even try, but I could not and would not in good faith and conscience do them with any other woman. Love and intimacy are "needs"...specific acts are not and they can be lived without. Sure they are desires and would make the sexual experience even more exciting, interesting, and enjoyable but they aren't absolute necessities. To me, that statement was very selfish.
Mikado · 46-50, F
@indyjoe I can understand and truly appreciate your honesty
If my man gave me an ultimatum such as let me have anal or I will be forced to get it elsewhere.... I'd give him what he wanted
That being said I love anal so I can understand your plight but don't understand how y feel no guilt whatsoever.
If my man gave me an ultimatum such as let me have anal or I will be forced to get it elsewhere.... I'd give him what he wanted
That being said I love anal so I can understand your plight but don't understand how y feel no guilt whatsoever.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
Well first of all, I don't care for anal myself so that's not a big deal that it the thing she refuses to even try. Secondly, it's oral sex that she's not comfortable giving however she will do it for me on occasion (and she does love to have it done to her) so again it's no big deal. Now...I would never give my wife an ultimatum and make her feel forced or pressured into giving me something sexually that I may want (I have way too much love and respect for her to do something like that). To me, her sharing her body and sexuality with me is a gift in itself...a precious gift....she does it because she loves me and wants to and not because she feels obligated to. I don't understand you say the part about how I feel no guilt whatsoever...guilt over what? I couldn't enjoy sex if I thought for one moment she wasn't enjoying it or was doing something reluctantly, it is then that I would feel a sense of guilt.