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DrWatson · 70-79, M
I make an analogy with music. There are all kinds of kinks out there, and if you go to a munch or a d/s club or to a kink-friendly website, they are all blaring away like a cacophony of diverse musical instruments playing in different keys. But each sub has her own set of tuning forks within her psyche -- some of those musical sounds resonate with her, and others do not. A good Dom is someone who can learn to play her music.