Can’t i just get any respect in this house?

To make a long story short, told my parents i wanted to meet my online friend in person who i have already seen and spoken to for a year, but like Asian parents they flipped out. I understand their concerns and i respect it 100%, but what i found disrespectful was that my mom decided to tell her friends about my private life the next day. There’s a reason why i tell my parents about my life because i value their opinion, well because they’re my parents and i love them, but it hurts me when they need to tell everybody and their cousins about it.

#sorryrant