staying friends with a female who rejected me, but begged me to stay friends with her twice after leading me on by saying I'm the perfect guy...

,she has always found me attractive, and she wants to find someone as good as me...To top it off, she's started to date other guys after saying she still only has feelings for her ex which was her reason that she didn't want to date or mess around. I'm happy she's healing, but the emotional cost to me has been unbearable for some time now and has lead to unhealthy coping habits. Not to mention I'm now training her at the gym and she constantly keeps in contact online and wants to hang out...but only when it's convenient for her. What would you do in this situation?

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I'd dump her. She seems to be using you as you already seem to understand that it 'convenient' for her. You deserve to be with someone that isn't going to make you feel emotionally drained. She can't have her cake and eat it and you will eventually start to spite her. So walk away for your own health.