So I saw a text on my wife's phone from an unidentified contact that said 'what's up'. Should I be concerned

@LadyGrace no she was showing me something on her phone and it just showed up

@Dayeshadow Best thing to do is just ask. That way, your mind won't be tempted to conjure up things that aren't real. I think it's ok, but it's ok to ask.

@GJOFJ3 That's what I thought too, but he said she was showing him something on her phone, when he saw that.

@MushroomFaerie no she was showing me a text from someone else when it popped up. Not the first time someone tried to hook up with her

@MadamMartha no she's had texts from other women she met at a bar that were very flirtatious

well be brave and straight up confront her! if shes got nothing to hide then it should go smoothly.

@Koch55 yes

Then make sure your instincts are right. Listen to your inner voice

@Dayeshadow To be fair, you must simply ask her, and then you don't have to guess.

@LyricalOne truth

@Dayeshadow No way to live.

@Sepia she doesn't allow that

@Dayeshadow oh k..respect it..don't worry in time..if there was really something it'll just float

@Stark back together now but now wondering what she was doing when we were separated

@Dayeshadow is it really any of your business if you were separated? Either way, if you’re that concern about it you should confront her not ask us. No one on here can give you the answer, and if the relationship lacks this much trust maybe you shouldn’t bother with it.