Oh, honey. I feel your pain. I've been through that. So very painful. Honey, when we're in that much pain, we cannot see things as clearly as we ought. please do not pine your life away over a man that didn't think you important enough to keep. Tell yourself the truth. What is it? You said it yourself. Listen to old Grace. Here's what's happening. You've lost yourself, not him. You've let him define your worth. You deserve someone much better, who is worthy of you! Honey, it's not him you're missing! It's you. Love yourself first. Then you'll be happy. You weren't created to please others. Further, even you confessed it....listen to your own words....""Well, what I thought was true love." That's the key, right there! Honey, you're not missing him. You're missing what you thought he was. You're pining over a dream sweetheart you wanted. Good news??!!! That special, respectful, adoring, attentive, thoughtful, loving, caring, faithful, man is out there right now, just waiting to meet someone as wonderful as you! But he won't be able to find you, until you let go of the creep you had! Don't keep this new man waiting, now. That was just life telling you, "Hey! This one isn't working for you, and never will. Time for a change! Let go and move on!" And trust me....when that wonderful new man steps into your life, you'll look back, laugh, and say to yourself, "What was I thinking?!!!" lol This one will be so much better. You deserve to be happy. Never give more to a person than you can afford to lose, hear me? Don't lose yourself. Love yourself enough to make sure they have your best interest at heart. You're going to do fine!!. I know it!!
