Do you tend to be attracted to people who are similar to you or people who are quite different from you?

both ,,if everyone was like me ,a bunch of over achievers ,Lord Help us
I like learning from even people who totally disagree with me
I prefer to learn the thing they believe and at least understand them better
then both of us remain Ignorant ,both of us thinking we know something and both missing a chance to know more
But I don't do ignorant jerks very well
attack me and call me names ,well the lesson in civility may end as quick as it started
I can be an arrogant ass too