I don't approach/as out guys. The ones that approach me look bad i.e sagging, covered in tattoos saying upfront " what's your name" and " can i have your number".
I also go nowhere but home and work so at the moment have no means of meeting nice, decent guys.
@rosyhills yeah it's tough. But you know maybe those guys that do approach might not be so bad give guys a chance it might surprise you. I have been before.
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Too many reasons to list. But struggling with mental illness, having aspergers and being on the asexual spectrum(ace) are all certainly part of it.
@ItsGonnaBeOk haha absolutely we all say things like that at some point. I remember it was much easier having that mindset when I was 18 I could just hang out play videogames and not care. But now I'm almost thirty and it's a terrifying thought having to date or worse end up alone
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I can't trust people, and the idea of being sexually attractive to someone repulses me.
@SkunkyLover yeah but some people are different. Some people have fixations on inanimate objects instead of people. Humans are a very unique creature :)
I had a relationship that went down in glorious flames, then sort of started enjoying not being in a relationship. I date quite a bit and the biggest issue is women don't believe me when I say I don't want a serious relationship.
@StevetheSleeve yeah..but I get it those women are probably looking for love. As long as your upfront it's not your fault. I wish I could be like that and just date for fun. I just never could I guess I'm too shy