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I told my friend/ passing crush that I won't text him for 10 days because some distance is good. Now I need help to stick to my resolve.

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LyricalOne · F

What is ten days supposed to accomplish?

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LyricalOne · F

@Heretodaygonetomorrow You really think ten days is gonna make you want a relationship any less?

Heretodaygonetomorrow · 26-30, F

@LyricalOne yes! :)

LyricalOne · F

@Heretodaygonetomorrow Well I certainly hope you're right. Best of luck.

symphonyssadness · 26-30, C

Why'd you even ask for that in the first place

Heretodaygonetomorrow · 26-30, F

@symphonyssadness because we're never going to be a couple. Friendship is the farthest we can go.

symphonyssadness · 26-30, C

@Heretodaygonetomorrow Is he the one inlove with you, or you him?

Heretodaygonetomorrow · 26-30, F

@symphonyssadness we are both attracted to each other I think. But we both know a relationship is not possible and we don't even talk about it.

ABCDEF7 · M

Whenever you feel like texting to him, first ask yourself, what he might think of you, and how might he react? what it might going to lead to? And do you really want all that to happen?

Heretodaygonetomorrow · 26-30, F

@ABCDEF7 solid advice :)

ABCDEF7 · M

@Heretodaygonetomorrow Thanks 🙂

NiftyWhite · 46-50, F

10 days isn’t that much distance. 10 months maybe... or even 10 weeks...

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NiftyWhite · 46-50, F

@Heretodaygonetomorrow what do you hope will happen after the 10 days?

Heretodaygonetomorrow · 26-30, F

@NiftyWhite well we will cross that bridge when it comes. Right now, I know for certain I don't want to be texting him while putting everything else on the back burner. :)

NiftyWhite · 46-50, F

@Heretodaygonetomorrow oh 🤷‍♀️ ok then...

smmartydude · 36-40, M

I never understood people who do this....distance is not good. It's stupid. And its probably just pissing him off.

Heretodaygonetomorrow · 26-30, F

@smmartydude we cannot be in a relationship. So distance is needed. He will understand because he is familiar with my culture.

Lolco · 36-40, M

Lol that’s only gonna make you crave his attention more

Heretodaygonetomorrow · 26-30, F

@Lolco I honestly don't want that to be the effect. I just wanted to stop texting him till 4 am. And do the other things needed in life.

Lolco · 36-40, M

@Heretodaygonetomorrow I hear you, I’m probably speaking form my point of view ..... hope everything works out & that you guys cans build a true & lasting friendship : )

Heretodaygonetomorrow · 26-30, F

@Lolco thanks! I appreciate it :)

PPHdicwiwnawiwm · 26-30, F

Hoping everything aligns with your desires; you deserve the universe😻.

Heretodaygonetomorrow · 26-30, F

@PPHdicwiwnawiwm thanks buddy!

PPHdicwiwnawiwm · 26-30, F

No worries 😻@Heretodaygonetomorrow

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