Would you accept if your bf/gf wanted to hang out with their ex but only as friends?

It would be possible to remain friendly, if they were friends for longer than their relationship lasted. And even then, nothing is guaranteed.

Personally, I would never keep my gf for doing anything because of my own fears. A relationship is based on trust and if she can't stay faithful with her ex, then what's it going to be whenever some guy pops up. Better to get rid of it now. If you want an independent and faithful woman like me then you have to do those leaps of faith and let her be.

Charlotte · 70-79, F

Seems innocent enough, but that never works, in my opinion. If they wanted to stay with the other one, shouldn't have left. Too much of a conflict of interest. Just not a good idea. That's just asking for trouble.

Charlotte · 70-79, F

Further, why would he/she need contact with their ex if they have you? It's not a matter of jealousy. It's a matter of them respecting you and your feelings enough, not to even go there.

SadtalesofHappiness · 31-35, M

I did, and she cheated. She showed her true colors. Good riddance.

greenmountaingal · 80-89, F

You'd be accepting allowing them to play with fire because you have been assured they will be careful not to let the fire get too hot. NOT a good idea.

SW-User

Grace, you are absolutely right. Thank you very much.

Rutterman · 46-50, M

Uh...I think not.

amandra · 26-30, F

I agree with miss grace there :) why the hell would you hang out with your ex when you have your present :) just saying.

amandra · 26-30, F

You should split up now. Haha I think something already happened you know what I mean? ;)

Enchanted · 56-60, F

Nah wouldn't work with me!

Memetic · 56-60, F

Nope

Charlotte · 70-79, F

Their actions show where their heart is. Dump, or get dumped.

Jinxey · 26-30, M

Nope. I know it sounds bad but I have trust issues...

SW-User

Thank you so much green mountain gal.

SW-User

I'm sorry sad tales of happiness.

Silverfox420 · 36-40, F

Yup, if they fuck around then you split.