Yesterday I slept with the mother of one of my sons friends. The son is 23. His mother is single and finding herself as I am. But her son is almost always at my house hanging out with my son
I think one time sex should always be kept private. But if you find you are in love, and want a long term relationship with her, then you will need to mention it eventually. Why don't you wait and see? You might find you don't like her quite as well as you thought 6 months from noew.
See if looks like a relationship is going to develop. If it is, then go for it. No reason you should have to live in secret if it's a consenting relationship and you're both single.
What? Why would you do that? They don't need to know, unless you decide to bring the relationship out in the open. Until then spare the kid the confusion and embarrassment.
Should you tell whom? The friend of your son, or your son? In either case, I don't think it matters that either of them need to know. What happens with you and that other woman don't need to be the knowledge of others. Of course your relationships with each person is unique and so is how you share things with each other. So it's still very much your call. I could see you telling your son, but the other woman should probably be the one to tell her own son.
Would you tell him if you had slept with his father. I don't think that kids need to know everything that their parents do. Just like parent's don't need to know everything that their children do. Lol I don't want to know about my kids sex life.
You are both consenting adults, enjoy one another's bodies as much as you like. Both of your sons need not know unless you wish to tell them, but that has to be an agreement between you & her.
@R5000 It's a delicate issue and a matter of discretion. One cannot be "over-sensitive" regarding parent child relationships. It's the mother's right to come out to her own son when and [b]IF[/b] she chooses to. It would be wrong of the poster to out her. Part of "finding oneself" is moving at one's own pace.
@Thebartender And, who knows, maybe while mom and other mom are getting it on at one house, the sons are wondering if they should tell their moms that they're in love with each other.