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Drowned into insecurity. Need advice

I am in a relationship with a girl who loves me a lot, cares for me. But wherever she goes she gets a proposal from guys even from her good friends who knows she is in a happy relationship. She doesn't hide it from me but she works with them day and night and I am in merchant Navy so I am off the grid for 7-8 months and they are there for her. I am just worried that they will take her from me and I don't want to loose her. Please any advice will be helpful.
Velgon
31-35, M
14 replies 34 views Jan 5, 2018
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SW-User
Whatever you do, do not show insecurity cause that is a huge turn off! If she loves you , she can’t be bought off by other suitors and you just need to trust her!
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SW-User
@Velgon oh now I understand. Why are you this way? Were you cheated on before? To enter any relationship like this, will be failure! I think you should work on yourself first! Yes, maybe see a therapist... get to the bottom of the problem! I wish you the best of luck!
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Velgon · 31-35, M
Yes in my last relationship she cheated on me and since then it's been hard.
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@Velgon See a therapist and remember you can overcome this!!! But please consider this!!! She might be encouraging the men to flirt and carry on with her and enjoying it! That is not the kind of woman you want if you are looking for a one man woman!
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UreBesFrend · M
I bet she is really pretty right? I dated a girl like that before and it was hell. Every guy that looked at her hit on her, even in restaurants when we were sitting together, or at parties and clubs.

I don't know there is really a fix for this except to marry her and get her pregnant so the desire of all these other guys wanes, but you need to be sure she isn't going to wander while your away too.

I decided to never date a model again after my experience.
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Velgon · 31-35, M
@UreBesFrend thanx for the advice but I want to spend my life with her.
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UreBesFrend · M
@Velgon I hope it works out, lots of pretty girls are faithful. Have a conversation with her so she knows what you are feeling, and get some assurances from her that she will not mess around with anyone else, if that is even possible, it might at least make you feel better about it.
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