And please forgive me I hate putting business out like this but she always makes it look like I'm the crazy one. And for context. We've planned multiple times to finally meet each other and usually I won't hear from her for days if not weeks after the missed date, this is due to her illness but I had to spend the next year and a half not knowing about it until our last argument. So this year I haven't heard from her in days, so I wanted to see if she was ok so I looked through her facebook for her brother adoptive brother Chris. It turns out he's more than her adoptive brother, he's the father of her child.