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Should you date someone just because they're in love with you ?

This guy he's really doing everything to be with me. Literally everything. He could get me a piece of the moon if that would make me agree. He even said he loved me and told me it slipped.
Thing is I really like thiss guy. And I appreciate how much he cares and to how length he's ready to go just to get me.
But I tried talking to him for now 2 months.
He's so not my type...
He's so far away from it.
We literally have zero point in common.
And I told him about it.
He said who cares different is perfect, and opposites attract. And so many other sweet things that make him seem even more of a great guy.
:( Idk what to do.
He's super sweet and cute.
If you're not feeling anything despite trying to, then you probably don't have feelings for him. So you need to cut it off as soon as possible cause the longer it goes on, the worse it's gonna get. I know he's sweet and stuff but the longer it goes on, the more it'll hurt him at the end. Just do it fast and quickly. He'll be alright. You can't force yourself to have feelings for someone :/
Nat15 · F
eMortal · M
He seems to care. He also seems to be a hard worker. If he's also honest then go for it. That's really all you need in a man. It's all our grandparents needed to make it last. Having the same idea of fun wasn't deal breaker for them. Today having the same idea of fun matters a lot to people but that idea itself changes all the time. You realize how difficult it will be to find someone who matches your ever-changing self? It's good to have someone you share some values with. The rest of what you like or dislike goes with the mood of the day, year, what TV show you're watching or the friend you're hanging out with. It's always time to learn new things. It opens new horizons. You're very young. The world is big if you open your mind.
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Don't settle.You'll regret it
Tatsumi · 31-35, M
Give him a chance. If it doesn't work out, then you break up. Just let him know uofront that you'll just give him a chance, but not to expect it to be long-term.

That's what dating is. Just trying people out. It's not like you have to marry the guy.
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pennynoodles · 56-60, F
Stop now, there is no point if you've already made up your mind that you have zero in common.
iFaye · 26-30, F
Do not commit. You’ll definitely regret it later. I’m not scaring you it’s the truth
IAMMONARAHIMI · 36-40, F
Give it ago, sometimes taking chances is good
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
He sounds a little obsessed. So if you decide to try him on for size, you've been warned. It doesn't sound like you'll have much to talk about?
popmol · 22-25, M
you should only date if you think there might come something out of it or if you are in love with them as well.
SW-User
I wouldn't date someone simply because they "love" me.
Goralski · 51-55, M
Just screw em
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