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Why do so many guys have a crush on me ?

No joke, I'm not bragging, please keep reading.
At least 11 guys in my class ONLY have admitted having a crush on me during the past 3 months, and that they were too intimidated by me.
The thing is,
I'm no beauty.
I legit have what any other girl has.
I'm plain, alright ? Not a breathtaking beauty.
My eyes are plain brown, my hair plain black, not even beautiful hair, my breasts are still in 6th grade, kinda thick, not tall but not short.
So maybe it's my amazing personality ? Well it isn't.
I don't even talk to my classmates, I'm super shy, and my social skills equal a stale piece of bread. I'm always daydreaming, and when they try to talk to me, I don't even know what they're saying.

Everytime someone admit they have a crush on me. I'm like, '' why ? ''.
SW-User
because you have a vagina
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
@SW-User I'm wit you on this. ʕ ᵔᴥᵔʔ
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LyricalOne · F
I have the same problem.

Nat15 · F
Maybe cuz you're shy you seem mysterious

maybe you're not beautiful (I have no idea, just going by what you say) but maybe you're just really cute.

Maybe they've heard a false rumor about you and think you'd be easy

Maybe they see that you're kind to others

Maybe they think that you'd be desperate for a BF (Not saying you are,, just what they might be thinking!!!)


Who knows what guys are thinking? I sure don't.

I guess I'd just be happy that someone is crushing on you and if you find someone you like then date them. 🤗
Tatsumi · 31-35, M
Guys are attracted to stale bread, if it's fuckable. Generally. Dudes have [b]significantly[/b] lower standards than women do, by biological necessity.

Women are most productive biologically when they pick and choose carefully, due to limited reproductive resources: i.e. eggs. Males are most productive biologically when they bang everything they possibly can: i.e. sperm.

Low amount of valuable resources = get the highest price you possibly can.

High amount of non-valuable resource = sell as many as you possibly can.

If you're even average looking, that's enough.
Tatsumi · 31-35, M
@Tatsumi non-valuable*. Also, even considering these much lower standards that males have, throughout history, females reproduce at a rate of 2-15 times as often as men. Currently, males reproduce half as often as women. So, you can see why it's important for males from a biological standpoint to have low standards. They already have a difficult time passing on their genes.
many younger guys like shy vulnerable looking girls, makes em feel like they stand a chance
Reboot153 · 22-25, M
So, are you the type of person who would question why you've won the lottery instead of appreciating your good fortune? Why try to figure this out. You're in a spot that many girls and literally every guy would wish themselves into.

I'm not saying that you should date them all but why question it? It happened, move forward. Appreciate your good fortune.
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Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M
You really don't understand male attraction
SW-User
Well then, congratulations
SW-User
You must be pretty and nice.
Goralski · 51-55, M
Do you eat banannas in class
SW-User
Just focus on you. Young guys and even some older guys will hump anything. If you describe yourself in such a negative way, then work on that.
TexChik · F
Girls really tend to dislike themselves ... almost pathologically . You are just being you , and apparently you are kind of special ! 😉
SW-User
They probs wanna bone, or a few of them actually think you really are attractive possibly.
Whys0serious · 36-40, M
Guys aren’t put off by shyness the same way girls are.
SW-User
Congratulations on being effortlessly attractive!
plungesponge · 41-45, M
it's them voodoo pheromones you excreting
Shipwrecked · 46-50, M
Hmmmm...🤔 There must be something about you. 😉
its a ticket too believe in your self .. embrace it ..
1972pp · M
You sound lovely. That's why
AbbySvenz · F
I feel your pain 😐 Have a cookie! 🍪
Alexsw · 70-79, M
may be you are hot
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1972pp · M
@audio I see why
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