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What are your views on people who go on the internet primarily to look for casual sex?

It isn鈥檛 my thing but it seems popular these days
LyricalOneF
Don't judge me. I'm SO LONELY!! 馃槶
Eyesropen61-69, C
You have a really fine sense of humor@LyricalOne
LyricalOneF
@Eyesropen 馃榿
Keepitsimple51-55, F
@LyricalOne 馃ぃ
SW-User
It's not for me. I want one person only.
@SW-User It's okay babe. You can mention me by name.
SW-User
@puck61 You're hilarious.
@SW-User I'm just a joke to you? 馃槶馃槶馃槶
Keepitsimple51-55, F
Complete losers but everybody does it these days, cops, mayors, government workers, married people and pervs sitting in their basement waiting for that stock pic from google to be sent.馃し馃徎鈥嶁檧锔
Keepitsimple51-55, F
@JudasGoat I鈥檓 not uncomfortable and I鈥檓 not innocent but I鈥檓 not a dog in heat either which is what normally PM鈥檚 me.
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Keepitsimple51-55, F
@JudasGoat it鈥檚 not always the women...some men鈥檚 viagra pills are collecting dust.
NorthwestM
As long as they are not cheating, or scamming, why would I judge them. When I was younger, the equivalent happened in clubs.

Sometime people are lonely, or looking for something to scratch an itch. Don't judge people, before you walk a mile in their shoes.
PaleandPolluted36-40, F
@Northwest I know what you mean. I鈥檝e encountered people saying they want a relationship on their profile but want to have fun in between. That made me sad, they looked nice.
@Northwest Oh my gawd! You said something I agree with! The tsunami must be on it's way!
NorthwestM
@PaleandPolluted The way I see it, it's one of those things that only matter to those who are party to it. If they're OK with what they're doing, then who am I to judge.

Some people are serial cheaters, or like or hurt others, so shame on them, but other than that, people do what they do for their own reasons. It's not like it's contagious. If it's not for you, don't do it.
SW-User
thats why i wont ever use dating sites.
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SW-User
Pathetic. Lol
SW-User
Because we are sadly evolving into a self sufficient consumerist humanity, where no one knows how to love anymore, it鈥檚 all about hook ups and ego boosting scorecard culture these days.
Bean1746-50, F
It seems scary to me. And I particularly don鈥檛 like how young people (like high schoolers!) use it so casually (Tinder).馃槙
Totally not my thing but if that's what floats their boats then meh
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as long as they stay away from me...
Spokeskitties7546-50, M
It鈥檚 pathetic actually
Not for me I would be terrified. It's their business so none of mine.
@puck61 馃槆馃槆馃槆
@puck61 hahaha 馃槀 check the flights to Scotland lol 鉁
Best offer all day!!
@Cutiepi23 I'm ion me bloody way...wut?
SW-User
I'm not in for casual sex with anyone. I tried it once a long time ago a few times with someone I was close to, never again. If others are looking for it, fine.
PaleandPolluted36-40, F
@SW-User i mean when they just choose a complete stranger off the net.. People were complaining Tinder was down and that was a bit gross for me.
SW-User
@PaleandPolluted that I could never do, sex with someone I don't know. I have to know enough about someone to want to engage in sex with them. Especially just knowing enough about their past to know if it's even safe to touch them or am I going get a disease right away
G4RYCOL3MAN31-35, M
It's the new "go to a bar looking for casual sex" its no different.
Keepitsimple51-55, F
Are you kidding? Lol, 5 minutes into a convo they dive right in and by the end of the convo they tell you their expectations of needing a lot of pics and sexting. They make no bones of their intent these days.@PaleandPolluted
PaleandPolluted36-40, F
@Keepitsimple I haven鈥檛 been out drinking almost 7 years lol. I don鈥檛 know if it鈥檚 changed. I can remember going as far as kisses and that was it.
Keepitsimple51-55, F
@PaleandPolluted I can鈥檛 say I miss the bar scene. It鈥檚 like being at a meat market, lol.
SW-User
I wouldn't do it but I don't care, it's none of my business.
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They must be patient as hell!
bhatjc46-50, M
Each to their own miss pale
caccoon36-40
It's not something I'd engage in, but it's their life, and it doesn't make me judge them as a person.

As long as they're not sort of duping people into the idea of a relationship, and just using people (like on dating sites), I think it's fine. Sometimes people want sex outside of relationships (I just mean while not being in a relationship, not for the purposes of cheating) for their own reasons. It doesn't mean they're going to do it forever, or that they do it all of the time.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit26-30, F
They are bored and or lonely

 
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