Do you think being taken for granted is abuse?

@lasergraph yes. the few times I have the courage to talk about it, haha, my husband treats me like he can't believe i have the gall to do that. he feels that I'm in subordinate or something

@darktippedrose Too many men just aren't "in tune" with their partner. I don't think that can be taught.

@lasergraph I would agree with you, but I'm the second woman married to my husband. I've talked to his ex-wife. This is who he is. No mistakes. he's doing it on purpose

@darktippedrose Obviously he has a history of this behavior, pretty set in, I would suspect.

@lasergraph yes he is. I tried to get him to see how his dad corrupted him when he was young, he thinks theres nothing wrong.

@darktippedrose I don't think he ever will, it is too late for him.

@lasergraph i know. Its so funny. I say this is who he is. And others tell me to have hope. the one time a girl doesn't try to change him and accepts his behavior, and they tell the girl to hope he'll change.

go figure.