Do you think being taken for granted is abuse?

Do you think that being taken for granted is no big deal? Or do you think its abusive?

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popmol · 22-25, M

its not abusive but its a bit of a compliment because if you're taking away that means they can't be without you and they are dependent of you. so without you a part of their life falls away

SW-User

@popmol but laziness is taking someone for granted. doesnt mean its a compliment.

popmol · 22-25, M

@SW-User no its not lazyness its taking their support and and make it a habit. not because they don't say thank you every time they don't thank you for it.

SW-User

@popmol lets say you share housing duties with someone and that person starts taking over parts of your duties because you dont feeling like doing them. they will start to feel like you are just taking them for granted because they picked up the slack where you werent willing to help out. its more about someone giving more than the other. someone who is willing to put more of the effort into something than the other.

popmol · 22-25, M

@SW-User then leave, i mean if you think you should perfectly share 50/50 or some thigns you do and you need to take over for a time and you dislike it say something. they are glad you do it they aren't like omg why aren't you doing your own jobs but also do mine. unless they are a dick but these are as far as i know only a little bit of the people who do.