If your spouce cheated on you does that mean its okay for you to cheat too?

@Pfuzylogic I fear that my children couldn't live with me and that I would be completely alone. That is my greatest reason for staying

@schizosaint
You have the Spirit of God.
God will listen to your prayer.
Rebuke fear.

@Pfuzylogic I just prayed about it....If I left I would end up having premarital sex with other people and I would lose more than just my husband, I would lose my children and my home and my lifestyle and security and I do still love my husband even if he is not perfect. So I should stay.

@schizosaint i had reasons to but no law in this land would take kids from a fit mother.

@schizosaint If you know that is true you can not allow him to continue with the cheating.

@ScoobyScoobydoo Thats the problem, I have a severe mental illness I couldn't hold dow a job I would have to go on disability, and my negative symptoms keep me from getting out of bed....Plus my kids prefer their father to me. They love me but they love their dad more...except my daughter told me recently that if her dad and I were to get a divorce she would be happy.

@schizosaint ok I feel for you but don't think the worst. Talk it through with your husband maybe he wants the same thing and wouldn't be so heartless ... Couldn't you agree parental rights but really you need to get yourself better .. maybe one step at a time



Maybe if you had a fresh start you'd feel a lot better. Maybe this bloke just makes you totally miserable ?