If your spouce cheated on you does that mean its okay for you to cheat too?

@schizosaint If you know that is true you can not allow him to continue with the cheating.

@ScoobyScoobydoo Thats the problem, I have a severe mental illness I couldn't hold dow a job I would have to go on disability, and my negative symptoms keep me from getting out of bed....Plus my kids prefer their father to me. They love me but they love their dad more...except my daughter told me recently that if her dad and I were to get a divorce she would be happy.

@schizosaint ok I feel for you but don't think the worst. Talk it through with your husband maybe he wants the same thing and wouldn't be so heartless ... Couldn't you agree parental rights but really you need to get yourself better .. maybe one step at a time



Maybe if you had a fresh start you'd feel a lot better. Maybe this bloke just makes you totally miserable ?

@nedkelly lucky man! Im happy for you.

@SW-User 🤔

@MrK007 I wouldn't want to.

@schizosaint But it was a question.

@ScoobyScoobydoo "works out good" relies on priority. If I'm acting in a way I feel is "right" then it's already worked out good. If that makes any sense.

no tbh sounds hard work and too indepth for my little brain hence i hope it works out good for you.. have a great day