If someone has slept with?

😱 Not normal in my opinion, the individual likely has an underlying issue. You are obviously craving something that you never got? Love? Approval? Acceptance? But you get disappointed... I don't know. That just seems a lot compared to the 1 I had before I was 21, and the 1 I still have. 😓

-why is this fucking important-

Well normal or abnormal is subjective. If someone wants to be a ho and give themselves to everyone they meet that's their business, if they want to restrict how many people get a shot at them to meaningful relationships, that's also their business. 🤷🏻

It's not the norm. The average lifetime partners is around 10, 11, 12. At the same time, that's 5 per year starting from 15 years old. I wouldn't say it's a "problem".

Its a good cause to get checked ,HIV ,HPV and other things that you may not have been aware existed

Yes, the problem is that they are a Ho.

or they're lying sacks of shit.

Sexaholic

Everybody has their own idea of what is too high or too low.
And it all depends on how you see sex.
I mean if you were saying 'If someone had 30 girlfriends by the time they were 21', THAT would be a problem i think !

It doesnt seem a particularly high number to me. I wouldnt judge anyone has a problem just based on that

I fit that profile and I have no problem. I dated and fucked lots of girls. 53 in 47 years, 34 before I was 21.

Maybe they couldn't find more willing partners, so 30 was the best they could do.

i don't think there is a "normal" when it comes to the number of people you sleep with

well depends on the person,and what the person wants,

I have only slept with 7 . since i was 18. But been single for 10+ years.

I dunno but I feel uncomfortable about it.

depends on the condition

All depends

no

It's not normal or abnormal; everyone is different.