Why I've never been in a relationship ?

Wait for the bad guy to come along if you wish, but you'll be setting yourself up for heartache and disappointment. So if I were you, I'd reconsider what type of man you'd want to be in a relationship with.

Huh? You want your first relationship to be special, and you think that means being with someone who you would call a bad boy? That's special? Seriously?

That is seriously screwy, but lets forget about that for a minute.

You specifically said "my first relationship" which is telling. You are not planning on being in one relationship, but in fact you are planning on being in more than one relationship. So what does it matter? Seriously? If you already are planning on having more than one relationship anyway, then why are you afraid?

I would be more concerned if I were you, about wanting to be with a bad boy your first relationship. Depending on what you mean by bad boy, that could ruin every other relationship after, or not, just depends.

How about just letting it happen, whatever happens, on purpose instead of making it not happen on purpose? You don't plan out who you are going to fall in love with and want to be in a relationship with, not unless you don't feel anything for them. And if that's a case, that's not a relationship that's an arrangement.

You cannot help having feelings, nor who attracts you, bad boy or good. It's your planning that is preventing you from experiencing life, not life preventing you from living as you plan. Just simply let things happen as you feel. You remove too much of the experience of falling for someone that you will never experience what a relationship really is.

Relationships are overrated. When [i]that [/i] guy comes along, you’ll know.

Cognition of life is a trial and error ..
No need to be afraid of making a mistake ...
We gain life experience

You need to get over the idea that good guys are "too good for a first relationship". Bad guys will leave you so jaded, bitter and played out that a "good guy" won't come near you.

Bad/ good guys are silly labels. Everyone is both with varrying degrees unless we are talking about convicts, serial murderers and such..

Hearts get stronger when they break, you can't control that. Your reasoning to get in a relationship with anyone should be more than desperation.

You are also still young.

Just my two cents.

You still young. Do it as you want. Its not like your biologic clock is ringing.

Maybe you should keep yourself more guarded . When the right one comes along you’ll know it.

Probs shouldn't be so picky and just get with a guy you fancy.

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