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Have you ever had any level of a "friends with benefits" relationship?

And how did it work out?
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TexasDude · 31-35, M
Nope. I've wanted to try it a few times but glad I haven't. I think sex is special and shouldn't be treated casually
Have had a couple. They do work and sometimes they don’t
Yes I do, and it always the wrong reasons lol. Shame on me lol.
IAmJess · 22-25, F
@TotallyMe5 Oh! Sorry!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@IAmJess oh!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@IAmJess better discussed privately
IAmJess · 22-25, F
@SpiritOfSoul probably...another day though...falling asleep now.
benhailin · 41-45, M
Nope.. never did. Probably didn't find the "benefit" lol
IAmJess · 22-25, F
@benhailin Hmmm 🤔
benhailin · 41-45, M
hmmm hmmm :P
MissMaybe · 31-35, F
No, I need more of a commitment than that.
IAmJess · 22-25, F
@MissMaybe I understand that.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@MissMaybe very respectable
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
I had two. Still friends with one, no benefits anymore as we're both married. The other one end badly when she wanted something that I wasn't ready to give at the time.
StrictLoving · 56-60, M
@IAmJess the resounding silence lol
EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M
@IAmJess *crickets*
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
@IAmJess I’m sorry but yes my wife knows about our previous affair. I don’t know if my friends husband does that’s for her to disclose.
The one was fine though lacking in frequency. The others didn't work out based upon age differences. I would have gladly continued one or two of the latter. FWB relationships for me served their purpose.
IAmJess · 22-25, F
@PoetryNEmotion What was the age difference?
SW-User
Nope. I guess, I can't either.
IAmJess · 22-25, F
@SW-User Because?
SW-User
@IAmJess Because, there is no pleasure in it for me. Not even slightly.
IAmJess · 22-25, F
@SW-User Okay, thanks.
No.--and that ship has sailed.
IAmJess · 22-25, F
@Elandra77 To where? 🤔
@IAmJess Not my concern where it sailed to. Just that it DID sail.
IAmJess · 22-25, F
@Elandra77 Lol okay
It was fine, it worked for both of us while it lasted
IAmJess · 22-25, F
th3r0n · 41-45, M
No actually, I think that would break my heart
Waxfoot · 56-60, M
indeed ,quite a few and still,yes
SW-User
Thinking of it. Not sure, I can pull it off though.
Yes with several friends. Some worked. Some didn't. It's hard to separate sex from feelings. People get hurt
IAmJess · 22-25, F
@Qwerty14 Hmmmm 🤔
StrictLoving · 56-60, M
my ex gf and I used to see each other for sex after we broke up.

for us, it worked. we had the comfort of already having been intimate, and the sex didn't have any relationship strings attached, which was quite freeing. we could just enjoy the physical part.
There was this girl in Portland that would used me as a 'grudge feck' about once a week. I didn't mind. I'm a tramp.
IAmJess · 22-25, F
@puck61 Lol okay
EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M
I've had them and enjoyed them as they were much better than masturbating. but I actually prefer an emotional connection with any woman with whom I'm that intimate.
StrictLoving · 56-60, M
@EnigmaticGeek "much better than masturbating" great review :-)

 
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