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Proudtobfrmwv · F
They can change if you make them feel loved,wanted,desired,beautiful,and make them your priority.
Genieinabottle · 51-55, M
It sounds selfish but that is all they are looking for to begin with.@Proudtobfrmwv
bijouxbroussard · F
@Proudtobfrmwv That’s woefully naive.
Genieinabottle · 51-55, M
@bijouxbroussard if the cheater is looking for focus, love, attention, appreciation and understanding why doesn t providing those things solve the problem?.
bijouxbroussard · F
@Genieinabottle Let me ask you: Why doesn’t an adult who doesn’t feel they’re getting those things [b]ask[/b] for them, or end the relationship if the partner refuses, rather than choosing to sneak around ? It’s a cowardly way of blaming one’s partner for one’s own choices.
Genieinabottle · 51-55, M
That's perfectly reasonable. Why don't they? Maybe it's hard to ask for things once you have been shut down so many times. Maybe , but I am just guessing here.@bijouxbroussard
bijouxbroussard · F
@Genieinabottle People also cheat without even letting their partner know they’re dissatisfied. Or necessarily [b]being[/b] dissatisfied, other than wanting to have sex with someone new.
