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ZenKitzune · F
that really depends on their reasons for cheating
Genieinabottle · 51-55, M
I was deressed and in bed all the time I wasn't at work for two years. All we did was fight. She thought the relationship was over and started to cheat and fell in love with someone else but ultimately stayed. Our marriage, it's not good though. We don't have sex anymore. We don't laugh anymore. We don't do anything anymore. I worry she is going to leave me even if she still loves me.@ZenKitzune
ZenKitzune · F
@Genieinabottle affection is just another addiction when you're in pain, if you felt the need to look elsewhere then you really need to figure out if your relationship is fulfilling either of your needs.
Genieinabottle · 51-55, M
I am worried she will look elsewhere again. I guess I cannot control that.
Genieinabottle · 51-55, M
@ZenKitzune is the relationship fulfilling the needs? Such a fundamental question. No, it's not. We don't talk, we don't make love, we don't do things, we don't spend time with one another aside from tv time. I don't know what our relationship does anymore but it doesn't fullfill me anyway.