In a 2nd marriage, is it normal for a woman with grown children to still prioritize over you?

@SStarfish that's how I feel.

Consider divorce.. Save yourself she's probly using you for your money?

Yeah I'm putting her through school. The thought has crossed my mind

Cut her off (financially) you're definitely being used imo. She might even already have a bf/lover or whatever going on

I thought that too. Lots of unaccounted for time, maybe she's not even with her son tonight