Does virginity matter?

I know some of you would say 'no'. It's just I'm a retard virgin and just found out that my fiance slept with his ex before he ended up with me. I don't mind he's not virgin but sometimes when I read kinky stories or kissed him I was imagined he did it with his ex and i got jealous. It just hurts. Sometimes he kissed me and I ended up crying.

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DragonFruit · 61-69, M

As my grandfather used to say “Patience is a virgin.”

Virginity matters more to some people than it does to others. If you really don’t mind that he’s not a virgin, don’t hold on to the jealousy.
My first time was with a young lady who was not a virgin. She hinted about it several times, but she wouldn’t say it directly (and I could tell it bothered her). After we made love the first time, it was like a great weight had been taken off her (and no, I wasn’t THAT heavy).
Try not to be jealous or let it bother you....it will make things easier for both of you.