Does virginity matter?

As my grandfather used to say “Patience is a virgin.”

Virginity matters more to some people than it does to others. If you really don’t mind that he’s not a virgin, don’t hold on to the jealousy.
My first time was with a young lady who was not a virgin. She hinted about it several times, but she wouldn’t say it directly (and I could tell it bothered her). After we made love the first time, it was like a great weight had been taken off her (and no, I wasn’t THAT heavy).
Try not to be jealous or let it bother you....it will make things easier for both of you.

I think virginity is important to a virgin and anyone who can respect that. Everyone else is just upset that they ruined their one chance or happy they didn't.

If he had sex before,but respects your wishes to stay a virgin you should be grateful for that. Once you have had sex it is harder not to give into that desire.

In my opinion, I don't think a girls virginity matters to a guy whose had plenty, you know? I can't see how it could possibly be special and new to him. Only to the virgin..
If I'm understanding correctly, he has cheated while engaged to you. If that's the case, I wouldn't be trying to get married to him.

The only thing is, neither of you can change it. So if you want the relationship to work, you have to find a way to make peace with it.

Virgins can be a pain in the ass to train properly. I've had 7, and the first times were not that special. Get some experience bunny.

Everyone should try more than one person! How would you know what you like if you didn’t try other people?

well it sounds like you may not be at peace with this relationship,,,,it's hard to say,

If you get on the freeway you don't want a bunch of virgin drivers out there with you. Same thing goes for hunting. When you interview for a job they want someone with experience. The only good reason that virginity might be a good thing for sex is disease prevention. Otherwise be safe and use protection and verify that he'll take care of your needs and not just his.

It mattered a lot until I gave it up.