Do you think that part of hiding nothing from your spouse you can tell them your friend's secrets?

@SW-User I don't agree..

@estranged Well that is your choice.

I mean I hav come to expect that couples share everything but then I don't trust anyone with my private things only single people until they are couples? But maybe they will tell everything later.. I better not trust anyone then .. it's not right @SW-User

@estranged Yeah. Telling one person your secret does not always remain with that one person.

It's not secrets but more private things that are going on with my life.. @SW-User

@SW-User how is it unfair to keep MY secret from their partner if I asked them to tell NO ONE? That makes no sense

@Fernie Who do you think a married persons loyalty lies with? You or her husband?
To the married woman, her husband is not a different person but an extension of herself.
If the topic ever came up and she withheld something, she just lied to her spouse.
And.......that is not very loyal is it?

I won't be discussing this further with you.

@estranged Be very careful who you share with. You may want to share with people who do not know you personally.

@SW-User no it's not betrayal because it's not something about her that she hid.. besides I honestly believe friends are more important than spouses.. spouses come and go in this life... friends remain by our side during these times..

@estranged Spouses come and go? Lol I dont know about you but I intend to keep mine for life.

This is my take. Like I said, you can be as you wish to be.

I respect your opinion @SW-User

@estranged Thank you.

@SW-User That was uncalled for. I have an opinion as well and I don't agree with you. Now you are in a snit. Very revealing